Sunday, February 28, 2021

Communication: Assumptions and Expectations

In this blog, we will explore the communication tools that will limit the misunderstanding that can occur on projects. The misunderstanding stem most frequently from assumptions and expectations and limiting the possibilities associated with those two areas will support project success.

Ever run into an issue where a team member assumed that turned out to be incorrect? I certainly have and it caused additional delays in delivery. Ever had a client be frustrated with a response because they interpreted the answer differently than you did? I have and it caused a significant amount of effort to gain clarification and keep the project on track. The bookends of assumptions and expectations can be disastrous for a project. Especially with the modular nature of our software systems these days. The “plug and play” of small areas of expertise and the misinterpretations, assumptions, and missed expectations can cause immeasurable rework and a break down in trust.

If there were an easy answer to this age-old dilemma in project management. It is simple and simple does not mean it is easy. It is challenging, it can be time consuming, and it is can be counter intuitive. The desire to get work done quickly and into the hands of the client is often the reason that there are delays in delivery. The adage time takes time is a true metric in project management. Wanting to land a deal, the level of effort is trimmed so that the bid can be won. What that can cause in the project is a scarcity mind set, where there is a belief that there simply is not enough time to complete the project. While that may or may not be true, beginning a project believing there is not enough time creates a series of decisions that limit the time at the beginning of the project when the decisions regarding the governance and framework of how the team will interact are being formed. This is where a lack of alignment between the various stakeholders begins and where the greatest possibility exists to establish those processes that will limit rework throughout the project.

The truth is, this is not only true in project management, but also for many relationships. Think about it for a minute. Ask yourself, are there examples in my life where a few minutes of conversation would have prevented a misunderstanding? Has there been an occasion where I made assumptions that were different that what happened? When I have expectations of how things are going to be handled and it turns out differently, does it matter to me? What about when I think there is alignment and I later discover that I misunderstood? If it is possible in my personal life, certainly it is possible in my professional life since it is all the same life. The saying, “the way we do one thing is the way we do everything” is another way of saying we frequently handle all things in a similar manner.

The key to these issues, time scarcity, assumptions, and expectations, is communication. Not just any type of communication, it is based on the art of asking questions, lots of questions. It is also built upon the communication tool of repetition. That are is to say what you are going to say, say what you say, and then recap what you said followed by asking what the group or individual heard. It also means that every decision made can be changed, with one caveat, that the impact is documented and agreed upon.

What I have seen repeatedly is changing a process and not being clear that the process has changed, making an exception and not documenting the exception, adjusting to meet client expectations without tracking the cost for every aspect of change. There is an ebb and a flow to every project, a give and take, a balance between client needs, the cost, and the value realized. The other key to note, it is not the big things that end of costing the most. It is the little agreements along the way that cost the most in the long run. An hour here or there is not much, and it adds up. It sets presidents that set additional presidents. Each time that occurs, the margin erodes until it is gone.

Once again, this is not project management specific. This happens in all relationships and it is not about keeping score, it is about limiting the frustration and resentments that can occur when there is a lack of balance. Communication, exploring through questions, writing down agreements, introducing it repetitively will anchor everyone in the language and the agreements made. Continuing to be flexible and adjust works well as does capturing the impact of the changes made and ensuring that there are limited assumptions and expectations.

In summary, ensuring assumptions and expectations are uncovered at the beginning of the project and taking the time to document them will foster a level of alignment and understanding across the stakeholder relationships. Probing questions, restating the agreements, and clarifying changes in processes and agreements supports in healthy communication. The simple tool of say what you will do, do what you said, say what you did allows everyone to be clear on the processes being followed. This simple practice in all relationships will add clarity and reduce misunderstandings. What are you practicing today?

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